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In 1991 Billy and Akaisha Kaderli retired at the age of 38. Now, into their 4th decade of this financially independent lifestyle, they invite you to take advantage of their wisdom and experience.

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5 Truths We Have Discovered with over 4 decades of Retirement

Billy and Akaisha Kaderli

Boating on the Mekong River between Thailand and Laos

Boating on the Mekong River between Thailand and Laos

Billy and I were fortunate.

At the age of 38, we left the conventional working world and launched an independent lifestyle of our own creation. It was an uncharted road with few support systems like online banking, safe withdrawal rates, and email to keep in touch with family. We wrote our script for living as we went along, and now in our 70s and with 4 decades of financial independence, we want to share with you 5 truths we have discovered about retirement life.





Itís a lifestyle, not a vacation

Many people think that retirement is one party after another with every dream becoming fulfilled; Days brimming with rounds of golf, mornings of tennis, afternoons sailing in the bay, cocktails in the evenings, exotic vacations and eating at the latest restaurants. Wardrobes are refreshed with endless shopping, bolstered by designer coffees and desserts.

This hectic schedule is neither sustainable nor recommended.

Living your newfound freedom as a lifestyle instead of in constant vacation mode will give you stamina and your wallet longevity.

The stress doesnít stop, it just changes form

After years of planning to leave a job they dislike, the idea of never having to get up early, pack a lunch and drive to work, people somehow believe that life will be completely without stress. This is not true! While you may no longer need to deal with an overbearing boss or a bothersome co-worker, life still goes on. There are family issues, bills to be paid, perhaps car or home maintenance and the very important task of keeping yourself young and engaged with life.

The trash still needs to be taken out.

Keep things simple

Life has a way of becoming complicated. Even planning a picnic or a group dinner engagement can take on mammoth proportions if one doesnít focus on keeping things simple. Wanting to cram years of fun and ideas into a few hours can make for stress you donít really need. It can also cost more than you might like to spend.

Retirement is a work in progress, and you're in charge. 

While you may have done your homework on the retirement front, thereís still the chance that your dream lifestyle might need some tweaking. If you find that this is the case, you are not a failure. You are the captain of your ship and can decide what to change if something might fit better. Life is not static. Leave room for some serendipity.





Don't take life so seriously, have fun with it! It's later than you think!

This last point is so very important. No matter where you are on the continuum of life, itís later than you think. We canít tell you how many friends we have lost in the last few years Ė those who were only in their 50s, some in their mid-60s. All this planning and focus on the future and not a moment to enjoy the present is unfulfilling.

Today is the day to smile. Find a way to laugh heartily. Try something new. Refresh yourself. Have no regrets. Because itís truly later than you think.

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About the Authors

Billy and Akaisha Kaderli are recognized retirement experts and internationally published authors on topics of finance, medical tourism and world travel. With the wealth of information they share on their award winning website, they have been helping people achieve their own retirement dreams since 1991. They wrote the popular books, The Adventurerís Guide to Early Retirement and Your Retirement Dream IS Possible available on their website bookstore or on

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