Hi Billy and Akaisha,
Thanks for your article on ‘Are You Afraid of Retirement?‘ and would love to see more articles dealing with the psychological aspects of retirement.
It is a timely article as well as it’s something I am dealing with right now. As you mention, fear can come up and rear its ugly head and as I get older, fear of the unknown is uncomfortable.
I feel as though I have been ‘institutionalized’ by working for almost 40 years and the freedom that appears to be there for me creates fear as well- what will I be doing with all that free time? Traveling around the world isn’t my cup of tea as after about 3 weeks I am ready to go home no matter how exotic the location.
I guess there are different types of retirees and I just gotta figure out what type I am…
Nice to hear from you again and happy to learn that you enjoyed our “Afraid of Retirement” piece.
Sometimes the anxiety we feel can actually be excitement but we don’t recognize it as such. Then again, it is probably a very good idea that you make a list of the things that you are interested in, things you might want to learn or even teach, and places you might want to go. Empty days have a way of filling up anyway, and if you can direct some of that energy into what you want to do, you will have more joy about it.
You could always join a club (gardening, chess, photography, hiking, tennis, etc.) or become a mentor (little brothers and little sisters, volunteer,) or take a class at your community college or city park or even at UDEMY or an online university (painting, accounting, computer class, woodworking, learn about world history, art) — there really is so much to do to fill up one’s days.
Take a look at our Preferred Links Pages for some ideas.
But the best thing is to know who you are and what you want. What do you want to do? Start there.
Thanks again for writing, and good luck. Once you get started I think it will be easier for you and you will have some excitement about your retirement future.