Retire Early Lifestyle
Retirement; like your parents, but way cooler

Retire Early Lifestyle Blog  Free Newsletter Subscribe/Contact Us

Advertise on info here

In 1991 Billy and Akaisha Kaderli retired at the age of 38. Now, into their 4th decade of this financially independent lifestyle, they invite you to take advantage of their wisdom and experience.

Dare to retire before 50

By Judy Martel •  

Could retirement before you're even eligible to join AARP be the quintessential impossible dream? Not if you're consistently disciplined, focused, driven and don't give a hoot about what the Joneses think of that beat-up Chevy in the driveway, say experts.

Living to work is a philosophy increasingly questioned by those approaching retirement age. Many are finding out they favor living instead of working, opting out of the daily grind even before traditional early retirement at 50-something. To tout their views, these extreme retirees are encouraging others to follow suit, telling their stories on Web sites and in interviews.

Bankrate found two couples eager to share their tales of extreme early retirement: Billy and Akaisha Kaderli, who split their time between Chiang Mai, Thailand, Panajachel, Guatemala, Chapala, Mexico and Mesa, Ariz., and Sandy Aldridge and Dale Lugenbehl, of Cottage Grove, Ore. Though their lifestyles are vastly different, they share many traits.

Set free to roam the world

The Kaderlis can count themselves as members of a small group of founders of the extreme early retirement trend among baby boomers. Now in their 33rd. year of retirement, the couple ditched their 9-to-5 jobs when they were 38 years old.

At 70, they say they would have made the same choice again, only investing sooner and with more confidence. The Kaderlis' initial $500,000 nest egg has grown steadily, partly because they hung in the stock market through the '90s boom and the historic bust that followed, and partly because they've lived on an average of just $30,000 a year. Initially, they put all their savings in a low-cost index fund.

The Kaderlis say that 38 was an excellent age to retire at, because they had accumulated life experiences through their careers: He was a former restaurant chef and owner, and at one time, the youngest branch manager at brokerage Dean Witter, while she continued to run the restaurant.

"We retired with youth, vigor and plenty of enthusiasm to venture out into traveling the globe. Retiring earlier, we would not have acquired enough skill or self-knowledge about how we are able to interact with the world," the couple says.

The Kaderlis sold their home when they retired and remained homeless while they explored the world, spending time in the Caribbean island of Nevis, as well as in Venezuela, Mexico, Guatemala and Thailand. Some time ago they purchased a small home in an Arizona retirement community, and split their time between these countries and Mesa, Ariz., when not traveling.

Their Web site, gives them the opportunity to communicate with other extreme early retirees, as well as educate the younger generation. Their advice to 20-somethings who want to follow the same path is simple: Save everything and stay out of debt.

Out of the mainstream

Extreme early retirement strikes a chord with people now more than in the past, says MSN personal finance columnist and author Liz Pulliam Weston. While going against the fearsome icon of the "company man" used to be part of the '60s counterculture, Weston says she's seeing a resurgence of the attitude among 20-somethings who are rejecting the consumerism that began in the 1980s.

"They want more than to be chained to their desks," she says, and they have more desire to redesign their career to have more personal meaning. Sometimes that means working until 65, but often shifting to careers that suit their changing mind-set.





Whether today's employees are enchanted with the idea of dropping out early or not, it's still a small group of people who can make it happen, says Weston.

"You have to be out of the mainstream to do this," she says, adding that in her experience, the successful extreme early retirees are "laser-like, and don't seem to care what people think."

Aside from an unwavering focus on their goal and an indifferent attitude toward amassing all the latest stuff, extreme early retirees can't be lumped into the same category. They run the gamut from young parents to singles and dual-income couples without children. Weston has talked to couples with as many as four children who are living in expensive areas of the country, as well as those who have no family ties and a cabin in the woods.

They share an excitement about their lives, a desire to spend time in pursuits that are meaningful to them, and often, an environmental conscience.

The simple life

All three traits apply to Aldridge and Lugenbehl, who retired more than a dozen years ago to an eight-acre parcel in Cottage Grove, Ore., with a starting nest egg of $135,000 each. They each contributed $50,000 to buy the land where they built their home, and the remainder is in CDs. They live on $400 a month and have a health insurance policy with a deductible of $7,500.

The money has remained conservatively invested in CDs.

"We like to sleep at night, so it's more important to us to know what's coming in, rather than to maximize the possible income," says Aldridge. "We've seen too many folks lose money rather than make money from their so-called investments."

Aldridge and Lugenbehl, who retired at ages 48 and 47, don't have a television and rarely eat out. Yet they don't feel like their life is lacking, says Aldridge.

"We are fortunate to have found what is enough for us. I feel so totally blessed with how much we have that I can't imagine wanting more. At this point, I'd have to say it's more than enough to meet our needs and our wants."

Tips for extreme early retirement 'wannabes'

Billy and Akaisha Kaderli, the "grandparents" of the extreme early retirement movement for baby boomers, share their mantra for those seeking to follow the same path: Work hard, spend little, save a lot and invest wisely. Their additional tips include:

• Set spending and investment priorities now for the future. 

• Stay 100 percent out of debt, except for a mortgage.

• Invest in stocks through index ETF's and mutual funds.

• Use the compounding effect of time by investing early.

• Seek a partner with the same financial values.

Aldridge acknowledges that the cost of living is lower where they are, but says they make an art form out of living well on less. They grow most of their own food, shop for clothes at yard sales, which Aldridge says is a form of entertainment for her, and find joy in small construction and gardening projects on their property.

The two cook their own meals from scratch and volunteer to give presentations on the environmental impact of food choices, as well as what Aldridge calls "voluntary simplicity."

"Dale and I would both rather have our time," she says, "even if we end up choosing to work hard at gardening or building. At least we're the ones determining what we're going to do with our precious life energy."

Pursuing passions

Finding passion outside of a career that had become a chore is a theme among most extreme early retirees. For the Kaderlis, that meant world travel and a chance to experience diverse cultures.

"We have our youth and spirit of adventure," the Kaderlis say. "The opportunity to travel to exotic locations and meet people from foreign lands has given us a global view that no amount of money could buy."

Aldridge and Lugenbehl enjoy their day-to-day life so much that the thought of vacationing elsewhere rarely occurs to them.

"We exercise faithfully three days a week, and usually take a long walk on the other four," says Aldridge. "My mother lives up here now and we take care of her. We do all the regular garden and orchard work."

The abundance of time and the freedom to choose how to spend it are the most satisfying aspects of retirement for Aldridge. "It's being able to get up each morning and decide for myself what I'm going to be doing that day. Honestly, I can't think of any downside; at least there hasn't been one for me."

Surprising reactions





Whether it's the green tinge of envy or an aversion to anyone who steps off life's predictable treadmill, extreme early retirees often face unexpected opposition from those around them.

"Back when we left our jobs, we got mostly shock," says Aldridge. "Dale's mother was a classic. She was sure we were going to go hungry and be out in the cold. That was about 16 years ago, and it's never been a problem."

"Some people have expressed envy, but we don't think we did anything they couldn't do if it really was a priority for them," she adds. "Most of our work history was part-time, and not all that highly paid."

Aldridge says Lugenbehl's mother couldn't imagine how they would fill their time in retirement.

"It was as if she thought we wouldn't be able to find things to do," Aldridge says. "My response was to ask her what she did with her time. Not another word was said because she realized that she'd never had any trouble in that regard."

The Kaderlis said that when they first retired, people treated them like they were on an extended vacation and would soon return to work.

"Some thought we were committing social and financial suicide, and others projected that we were selfish or lazy since we opted out of the mandatory working world," the Kaderlis say. "This included family members, friends and even strangers. Our choice of early retirement was too far out of the box for them."

Think like an entrepreneur

The Kaderlis and Aldridge say they have always been debt-free, except for the time when they had mortgages, and they avoid debt now like the plague. They also live below their means, even when their investments throw off more income.

These two actions are key to the ability to retire early, says Herb Hopwood, president of Hopwood Financial Services in Great Falls, Va.

"It really comes down to the fact that you can't control what the markets are going to do, but one thing you can control is your expenses, and that's probably the biggest thing," he says.

Hopwood likens extreme early retirement to extreme sports.

"Extreme sports are risky and you must be in great physical shape. Early retirement is risky, because what you're planning is going to be for a long period of time without income ... and you have to be in great financial shape."

After an initial financial plan is developed, whether informally penciled on the back of an envelope, like the Kaderlis, or more formally with a financial planner, it has to be monitored and changed. Setting yourself up to receive the same income no matter how the markets perform can result in financial disaster, says Hopwood. "The objective is not to tap the principal."

Once you begin doing that, he says, it's alarming how fast principal erodes, leaving you with a smaller pot from which to draw income. A portfolio should remain fairly aggressive in equities, up to 70 percent of the total. But Hopwood cautions against a blanket approach when it comes to what's considered aggressive.

"You can be aggressive in allocation, and stupid in investments," he says. For instance, he wouldn't recommend that all the equity allocation be in biotech, or growth stocks, but in a balanced blend that will return an average of 8 percent over time.

Hopwood recommends that clients seeking a long retirement train themselves to think like entrepreneurs. The portfolio, rather than a job, is providing income, and like an entrepreneur, a retiree should be constantly watching and adjusting the rate of income.

"Too many people adjust their lifestyle to their income," Hopwood says. "That's a very dangerous thing to do."

About the Authors

Billy and Akaisha Kaderli are recognized retirement experts and internationally published authors on topics of finance, medical tourism and world travel. With the wealth of information they share on their award winning website, they have been helping people achieve their own retirement dreams since 1991. They wrote the popular books, The Adventurer’s Guide to Early Retirement and Your Retirement Dream IS Possible available on their website bookstore or on

Trending on Retire Early Lifestyle


Retire Early Lifestyle appeals to a different kind of person – the person who prizes their independence, values their time, and who doesn’t want to mindlessly follow the crowd.

HOME   Book Store


Retire Early Lifestyle Blog      About Billy & Akaisha Kaderli      Press     Contact     20 Questions     Preferred Links     Retirement     Country Info    
Retiree Interviews
      Commentary     REL Videos




Subscribe Newsletter