Retirement; like your parents, but way cooler
In 1991 Billy and Akaisha Kaderli retired at the age
of 38. Now, into their 4th decade of this
financially independent lifestyle, they invite you
to take advantage of their wisdom and experience.
Leads to Brilliance
Billy and Akaisha Kaderli
Letting go does not
always mean the loss of something valued, implying that there might be grief and
Out of fear we
envision ourselves in some barren emotional wilderness, nothing around us is
familiar so there has to be that dreaded chaos, right?
who wants that?
But what if letting
go lead us to brilliance? To our own personal freedom of expression? What if
this is Life’s way of steering our personal growth in a manner where we display
our best talents?
Letting go could
Have you ever heard a
musician or singer who is technically perfect - but there seems to be no soul?
No felt connection to the audience?
Yes, all the notes
are there and in the right place, but… something is missing.
There is no grab at
my heart. I could just as well be chopping carrots in the kitchen for soup. It’s
just routine, and maybe I should have bought a bag of frozen carrots instead.
I always know when I
hear someone “Who’s got it.” My eyes well up and I can’t reign it in. That’s my
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Chills on my arms, my
eyes are glued to the performer and I am transported. The artist has whisked me
away, and I want to go.
It could be a jazz
singer who scats, a sax player having a riff or Billy Joel hitting the high
notes for Christy Lee.
They let go and have
entered “The Zone.”
Ok, here’s another
We have all seen
outfielders throw their bodies at a fly ball just to catch that thing. Or a
basketball player speed down a court and ram a ball into a basket. Ballerinas,
ice skaters, skateboarders spin incomprehensibly – how can a physical body DO
Maybe as a skier you
have caught air and you know that sensation of flight for yourself.
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To let go,
is to leave the ground and enter genius territory.
When we begin to
learn something new – cooking, Latin dancing, painting on canvas, surfing –
there are basics. We learn the techniques, the rules, the boundaries. And then
to develop proficiency, we leave them behind.
to catch attention and inspire, we must become the
instrument through which Life plays.
If we don’t have
faith and instead we tighten up, we fall off the surfboard.
If we don’t trust our
instincts, our canvas will look like we “painted by number.” The end product
Latin dancers draw
one in with their passion, right? And food always tastes better when it’s made
Fear contracts us,
restricting both our movements and our mind. It tells us we cannot fly.
We’ll never hit
those high notes for Christy Lee until we let go.
motivation do we need?
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